Female Orgasm Advice
All women are different when it comes to them having an orgasm. Some can have one after another and some never have one. What it boils down to is what really makes a woman have an orgasm. The clitoris or clit located between the upper part of the vagina lips is the central location of the most sensitive part of her sexual arousal. The first and most important thing to do is make sure the clit is moist before you try to stimulate it. If it is dry, she will become raw and this will ruin the moment, so act accordingly. Gentle circular motions on and around the clit will really make her feel good. If you can feel the clit swell a little, that means it is responding to you touch. Don't press too hard and spoil her orgasm. Continue doing this until she obviously has had an orgasm. When she has finished her orgasm, it is time for you to make love to her. Also remember, when a woman has an orgasm, her vaginal walls will close up slightly and make for a more snug fit around your penis, so take it easy when penetrating and not ruin the moment. Make sure your erection is moist enough to penetrate with ease. A woman's vagina and all her genital parts are very tender, so act accordingly. Don't be rough with her and you both will enjoy a very gratifying love encounter.
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Women, in my experience, almost always have an orgasm during oral sex. The main thing to remember is to pay attention to how she reacts to the various movements you make with your tongue and lips (no teeth-yikes). Always begin very lightly moving in a gentle, circular motion. Experiment a little but don't intensify the pressure or speed a great deal, only in small degrees. The heat of your bodies and your mouth will provide a lot of stimulation to get things moving. If the woman is hesitant, for whatever reasons, be patient and do not try to force your way into oral sex. That will be the anti-orgasm in most cases. Pay attention to how she reacts and when you get a favorable reaction be sure to repeat that particular motion or movement, but not necessarily on a constant basis. Go back and forth between different approaches. When you have a good idea of what she really likes, then allow things to slowly build to the point where she can't contain herself any longer - and then follow her lead. More than likely she will be moaning loudly and maybe even give you some directions by pulling on your head the way she likes it. Think of it as making out with her, only in a much more intimate fashion. I would almost guarantee that she will have at least one major orgasm and probably more if you play it right. Again, follow her lead. She may need to recuperate somewhat before going a little further and pursuing a second or third orgasm. Then again, you may find that you have unleashed a sex monster and she may not let you up. That qualifies as a good problem. Good luck.
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